As of this past Saturday, I will officially only be in London for 50 more days. I remember when I was counting down the days to leave Arizona and just like that my time abroad is dwindling down quicker than I ever thought possible. I feel awful for not updating as often as I should. My time here is being used so efficiently that writing—one of my favorite pastimes—has recently been put on the back burner.
This past week alone, I went to my first football game (the real kind), saw Wicked the musical for the first time, went to the movies and saw the most recent adaptation of Romeo and Juliet, embraced my inner tour guide and showed the lovely Sala Shanley around London, visited Oxford and easily had the best night of my life—John Mayer’s final show of his 2013 world tour.
Seeing John live in London was absolutely unreal. I laughed, cried, smiled and just took in the wonderfulness of seeing someone grow right before your eyes. It had been 5 years since the last time I had seen John perform and everything about this show was special. This man has received so much backlash over the years and although I’ve stood by him throughout his personal and professional struggles, he’s finally in a place where he’s truly happy.
He opened with one of my favorite songs from Born and Raised, Queen of California and continued to pleasantly surprise me for the entire night. He played the perfect mix of old hits to some that the crowd might not even recognize and of course, in typical John fashion, went on his intellectual tangents that prove his passion. I could go on and on about how much personal growth John has endured over the years and how much I respect him as a musician but mainly I love him as a human. We all know how controversial his 2010 Playboy interview was and when I saw him in Phoenix in 2008, his attitude was just about the same. He was simply a lost guy who said some crazy things and let fame get to his head. I like to think he’s the perfect example of a person who hit rock bottom and truly learned from his mistakes.
This show though was different. At one point, I looked around the arena and was just in awe that John could have such an impact on such a diverse group of fans. In front of me were some 30-somethings and in front of them were some teenage girls a bit younger than me. I literally teared up because they reminded me of myself when I first saw John at 15 and remembered how cool I felt seeing my favorite artist live for the first time. In a sea of Londoners, I felt right at home.
The one aspect that I found to be the most liberating was not having my camera. If 15-year-old me forgot her camera, she would have freaked out. But this time, not having my camera allowed me to genuinely be in the moment and I appreciated that more than I can explain. I was able to see John end his 2013 World Tour and I’m certain that is something my mind will never let me forget.
Full setlist from the night:
Queen of California
Wildfire
Slow Dancing in a Burning Room
Waiting on the Day
Speak for Me
No Such Thing
They Call Me the Breeze
I Don’t Trust Myself
I’m on Fire
Stop this Train
Half of My Heart
Something Like Olivia
Who Says
Lost at Sea
Paper Doll
Vultures
Age of Worry
Gravity
Walt Grace
Dear Marie
As I’m writing this, my mind still has thoughts of John but I’m also really looking forward to my fall break trip to Scotland tomorrow through Saturday! Although I absolutely love London, it’s always nice to get out of the city. Sending you all lots of London love!
Cheers!
Lauren, In London